Hand-me-down Rockers

Author: Felice Prager

One of the child-sized rocking chairs belonged to my husband; the other was mine. My husband's rocking chair was a deep-maroon leather. Mine was pink, as was everything else in my bedroom when I was a child. It is curious that today, pink is one of my least favorite colors, but back then, if it wasn't pink, I did not want it.

Amid each of our childhood photo albums, something my mother and mother-in-law were much better at keeping than I have been with my own children, there are pictures of each of us in our rocking chairs. In my pictures, I have ringlets of light brown hair, and I am pouting. As a child, I am told, I was always pouting about something. In my husband's photographs, there is a thin, freckled child who looks like he invented mischief. The stories I have heard of my husband as a child were usually about something Sam did and how much trouble he got in for doing it. The faces matched the personalities.

The story that I remember about my chair was that my parents paid for it over time at three dollars a week. At that time, three dollars was a lot of money to have for an extravagance. I think my chair cost my parents $40 in total. My husband's rocker was probably about the same price. From the time I was a teenager, my rocker was stored in my parent's basement. For some reason, my mother never wanted to get rid of it. Perhaps it was the memory of how long it took for her to pay for it. Perhaps it was the memory of the little girl who sat in it.

We found Sam's rocker in his mother's attic when she sold her house to move to a smaller apartment. Sam insisted on keeping his chair. Neither chair was in great condition. Years of dust and dirt had made them look old. We brought his chair to my mother's house, and it sat together with mine in storage.

When our sons were born, my mother surprised us by taking each of the chairs and having them reupholstered. Since she offered this as a gift, we gave it no thought except that we could have pictures of our own children in these chairs. The artistic side of me thought about side by side pictures of parents and children in their respective rockers. My mother made fine choices in colors for each rocker; she changed my husband's rocker to a rich brown and my childhood rocker to tan. After all, these would be in boys' bedrooms.

The bill for the work was what surprised us the most. Combined, reupholstering the chairs cost my mother over $300, obviously more than what they cost originally. My mother told me that the man who did the work said he would buy the chairs from her before he worked on them for twice as much as he would charge her to fix them. He said the workmanship that was put into the chairs couldn't be matched today.

Instead, the chairs were refinished and looked like new, and for years they sat in each of my children's bedrooms. We have pictures of my children sitting in them at different stages of your lives: first as toddlers, then as little boys. Eventually, the rockers became catch-alls for clothes and toys which should have been put away. Occasionally, we would find a cat curled up on one chair or the other, sleeping in comfortable rocking chair while children played with Lego or did homework. Those photos are in shoeboxes with the rest of my children's pictures. Someday, perhaps I'll try my hand at scrap-booking. For now, they are safe albeit a bit disorganized.

Today, the rockers are each stored in my son's closets. My older son, now married and living in another state, has talked about taking his rocking chair when he starts his family. This son is more of a traditionalist and I have a mental picture of a child resembling him someday sitting and rocking in it. My younger son, still in his teens, says he will never get rid of his rocker either, but his motivation is different. "I'm always going to have cats, and cats need a place to rest at the end of a hard day, too."


 

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